Ayesha


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Love is a close bond with another that goes deeper than affection, attraction, lust, or friendship. It's a deep mutual expression of respect, trust, honesty, integrity, intimacy, chemistry, and partnership. Love is something best experienced together. You find it in each other, not separately.  

1. Love is not Lust

Despite the phrase “it was love at first sight,” love is not something we feel right away. 

That strong feeling of attraction, like a magnet pulling you towards that person you’ve just met? That’s infatuation and sexual chemistry.

Mother nature gives us a big dose of infatuation in order to get us together initially. 

Love does include sexual chemistry, but it differs because it is an emotion that takes time to build. Lust can appear in an instant; love evolves over a period of time as you get to know the other person inside and out.

 2. Love Completes a Relationship

You may be immensely attracted to your partner, but that does not mean you understand the true definition of love. If you haven’t developed a base of loving feelings with your partner, once the sexual spark dies down, you will become bored.

3. Love takes time to Bloom
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How to explain love and relationship?

To start with, a loving relationship is not built in a day. The threads of love take time to weave together to form a strong bond. It is only as you and your partner share your thoughts, fears, dreams, and hopes that love takes root. So trust the process and don’t rush love. It has its own timetable that needs to be respected and not hurried.

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The One True Love
We talk about “soul mates,” but humans are built with the capacity to love over and over again. Thankfully so, or we would never recover from our high school crush, or losing a partner to divorce or death.  

5. Love is Generous
In a truly loving relationship, we give to the other without an expectation of return We don’t keep an account of who did what for the other. Giving pleasure to our partner gives us pleasure, too.

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We Feel What our Partner Feels
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The true meaning of love is to feel a sense of joy when we see our partner happy. When we see that they are sad or depressed, we feel their blue mood, too.
With love comes empathy for the other person’s emotional state.

7. Love means Compromise
The real meaning of love in a relationship is to willfully comprise your needs in order to accommodate your partner’s needs or desires. But we don’t sacrifice our own self in doing this, nor should the other person require us to sacrifice our own self for their personal gain. That’s not what love all about in a relationship; that’s control and abuse.

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Respect and Kindness
What is true love?
Well, when we love, we act respectfully and kindly towards each other. We do not intentionally hurt or denigrate our partner. When we talk about them in their absence, it is with such warmth that the listeners can hear the love in our words. We do not criticize our partners behind their backs.

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We act with Ethics and Morals
Our love for the other person enables us to act morally and ethically, both with them and in our community.
Their presence in our life makes us want to be a better person so that they well continue to admire us. 

10. We Guard each other’s Solitude
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With love, we never feel lonely, even when alone. 
The very thought of the other person makes us feel as if we have a guardian angel with us at all times.

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Their Success is yours as Well
What is true love in a relationship?
When our partner succeeds at something after a long effort, we beam with joy as if we were the winner, too. There is no feeling of jealousy or competition, just pure pleasure at seeing our beloved’s success.

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They are always on our mind
Even when separated for work, travel, or other commitments, our thoughts drift towards them and what they might be doing “right now.”

13. Sexual Intimacy Deepens
With love, sex becomes sacred. Different from the early days, our lovemaking now is deep and holy, a true joining of bodies and minds.

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We Feel Safe
The presence of love in the relationship allows us to feel protected and safe as if the other person is a safe harbor for us to come home to. With them, we feel a sense of security and stability.

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We Feel Seen and Heard
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Our partner sees us for who we are and still loves us. We can show all our sides, positive and negative, and receive their love unconditionally.
They know who we are at our core. Love allows us to bare our souls and feel grace in return.

16. Love Helps Fight without Fear
What is love all about? It is a sense of security.

If we are secure in our love relationship, we know we can argue and that it will not break us apart. We agree to disagree, and we don’t hold grudges for too long because we don’t like to hold bad feelings towards our partner.

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mitchi
beautiful post, thank you for sharing <3
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